Showing posts with label hurt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hurt. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

De-conversion


Sociologist, Bradley Wright, has recently published an article on 'de-conversion' - in other words, reasons for why people leave the Christian faith.

This is the abstract. The full article, which appeared in the Journal of Religion and Society, can be found online here.

"This article examines the written narratives from fifty former Christians. In these narratives, drawn from an online community of deconverts, the writers described their experiences with and explanations for leaving the Christian faith. Several themes emerged as to why they left, including: intellectual and theological concerns, a feeling that God had failed them, and various frustrations with Christians. The writers gave little mention to non-Christians as pulling them out of the faith. These narratives emphasized external, rather than internal, attributions for the deconversion. They also identified primarily “push” rather than “pull” factors as the cause of deconversion. While some narratives outlined the costs and benefits of deconversion, others told of seeking moral rightness regardless of the cost."

The reasons boiled down to intellectual and theological concerns, God's failures, interactions with other Christians, and interactions with non-Christians. (Interestingly enough, this last group seems to be the least influential.) Some of this may be already well-known, but it's good to have it available in a relatively succinct form.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Attachment Disorder Churches


Kenneth Quick has written an article that appears in the Leadership Journal in which he talks about Attachment Disorder churches. He relates them to children from countries like Romania and Russia who've been adopted by US parents who get endless love but sometimes still wind up being unable to received the love, because of what's happened to them in the past. I'm not sure that his analogy works all the way, but what he has to say about relationshiops between pastors and their churches is well worth thinking about. The way the people in some churches get hurt and then unintentionally take it out on future pastors is worth noting, and the way in which pastors can unintentionally hurt their congregations through unrealistic expectations is also worth thinking over.

See the whole article here.